Yeah, sure, I may feel confident doing what comes easy to me, but what happens when I want to do something that I have to work at? Or I need to grow in an area of a "natural" skill but doing so could lead me to failure? With a fixed mindset, we don't want anyone to see us fail. We may quit too early because, since it's not coming easily to us, well, I guess it's not "our thing" even though something in us beckoned us to try it.
(This month I'm exploring the topic of letting go. Last week I talked about letting go of the belief that my quiet voice is less valuable than louder voices.) This week I started digging to find the root of what's been holding me back. When I was younger, around 6 years old, I missed the … Continue reading Finding the Root
I felt the frustration creep in. It tends to do that when the reality of my situation slaps me in the face. I see where I want to be and it's not where I am. The thoughts of "why me" or "God, it was stupid of me to do that" and "I could be further … Continue reading Advice on Changing Your Life